I came across this great pin a couple weeks ago with the topic, 10 actions that kids learn from their parents’ marriage. It got me thinking about how whether you have a good marriage or a lousy one, if you have kids, you have witnesses to your actions day in and day out. “Reality” TV stars learn to act like the cameras aren’t right there in the room with them. They get used to having a crew follow them around and viewers become the proverbial “fly on the wall.” I think we become the same way with our kids at times. We just get used to them being around, and they become the audience to our marriage. This can have a profound influence on our children. Whether it’s a good one or a bad one is up to you!